Talking about autism can feel overwhelming, especially when the conversation feels deeply personal and the words are hard to find. Whether you’re navigating a new diagnosis, parenting an autistic child, or exploring your own neurodivergent identity, you’ve likely asked yourself:
How do I talk about this in a way that feels honest, empowering, and clear?
That’s why we’re launching Bridging Understanding: Talking About Autism—a compassionate, practical blog series from Dr. AJ Grovert. Each post offers scripts, strategies, and support for real-life conversations about autism—with kids, caregivers, extended family, and friends.
Whether you’re just beginning this journey or continuing to learn, you’ll find real-world language, relatable scenarios, and deep respect for autistic identity in every installment.
Why These Conversations Matter
Autism isn’t something that needs to be hidden, “fixed,” or explained away. It’s a neurotype—a different but valid way of experiencing the world. And the way we talk about it shapes how autistic people understand themselves and how they’re treated by others.
Too often, conversations about autism are reactive, meaning they—only happening during moments of stress, judgment, or misunderstanding. This series helps flip that narrative by giving families, educators, and individuals a framework for speaking with clarity, compassion, and pride.
You don’t have to be an expert. You just need the right language, a little support, and a lot of heart.
What to Expect from This Series
We’ll be releasing one blog at a time, each focused on a different kind of conversation. Here’s what’s available now:
- Part 1: How to Talk to Your Child About Their Autism Diagnosis
Learn how to introduce the word “autism” in a way that builds self-understanding and pride.
More topics will be added in the coming weeks, including:
- How to talk to your own parents or in-laws about your child’s diagnosis
- What to say when other kids ask questions
- Navigating disclosure as a late-diagnosed autistic adult
- How to talk about autism with other families in your community
Each post includes realistic scripts, answers to common questions, and helpful phrases you can return to again and again. Our goal is to make these conversations easier, more affirming, and grounded in dignity.
Who This Is For
This blog series was created with a wide audience in mind, including:
- Parents and caregivers of autistic children
- Autistic teens and adults—especially those recently diagnosed
- Teachers, therapists, and extended family members
- Friends and allies who want to communicate more effectively and respectfully
Whether you’re talking to your child, your in-laws, or your best friend, these blogs will help you feel more prepared and less alone.
Final Thoughts
Autism is not a problem to be solved—it’s a way of being to be understood. The words we use matter. When we speak with respect and curiosity, we create space for autistic people to thrive.
We hope this series helps you find your voice, clarify your message, and deepen your connection—with your child, your loved ones, and yourself.
